What is Meditation?

Meditation is a practice where an individual uses a technique – such as mindfulness, or focusing the mind on a particular object, thought, or activity – to train attention and awareness, and achieve a mentally clear and emotionally calm and stable state.

Meditation isn’t about becoming a different person, a new person, or even a better person. It’s about training in awareness and getting a healthy sense of perspective. You’re not trying to turn off your thoughts or feelings. You’re learning to observe them without judgment. And eventually, you may start to better understand them as well. Learning to meditate is like learning any other skill. Think of it like exercising a muscle that you’ve never really worked out before.


It takes consistent practice to get comfortable. There’s no such thing as perfect meditation. Sometimes your focus will wander or you’ll forget to follow your breath. That’s OK. It’s part of the experience. What’s most important is to meditate consistently. It’s one of those things where the journey is more important than the destination. It takes time to get comfortable with your mind. There might be setbacks along the way but that’s part of meditating. Keep practicing. You’re doing great just by showing up.

Meditation may be used with the aim of reducing stress, anxiety, depression, and pain, and increasing peace, perception and well-being. 

Where to Begin?

How do you learn to meditate? In mindfulness meditation, we’re learning how to pay attention to the breath as it goes in and out, and notice when the mind wanders from this task. This practice of returning to the breath builds the muscles of attention and mindfulness.

When we pay attention to our breath, we are learning how to return to, and remain in, the present moment—to anchor ourselves in the here and now on purpose.

While meditation isn’t a cure-all, it can certainly provide some much-needed space in your life. Sometimes, that’s all we need to make better choices for ourselves, our families, and our communities. And the most important tools you can bring with you to your meditation practice are a little patience, some kindness for yourself, and a comfortable place to sit.

The first thing to clarify: What we’re doing here is aiming for mindfulness, not some process that magically wipes your mind clear of the countless and endless thoughts that erupt and ping constantly in our brains. We’re just practicing bringing our attention to our breath, and then back to the breath when we notice our attention has wandered.

If you experienced these sorts of distractions (and we all do), you’ve made an important discovery: simply put, that’s the opposite of mindfulness. It’s when we live in our heads, on automatic pilot, letting our thoughts go here and there, exploring, say, the future or the past, and essentially, not being present in the moment. But that’s where most of us live most of the time—and pretty uncomfortably, if we’re being honest, right? But it doesn’t have to be that way.

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Meditation in Practice

Meditation is simpler (and harder) than most people think. Read these steps, make sure you’re somewhere where you can relax into this process, set a timer, and give it a shot:

1) Take a seat

    Find a place to sit that feels calm and quiet to you.


2) Set a time limit

    If you’re just beginning, it can help to choose a short      time, such as five or 10 minutes.


3) Notice your body

    You can sit in a chair with your feet on the floor, you        can sit loosely cross-legged, you can kneel—all are        fine. Just make sure you are stable and in a position        you can stay in for a while.


4) Feel your breath

    Follow the sensation of your breath as you inhale and      exhale through your nose.


5) Notice when your mind has wandered

    Inevitably, your attention will leave the breath and          wander to other places. When you get around to              noticing that your mind has wandered, simply return        your attention to the breath.


6) Be kind to your wandering mind

    Don’t judge yourself or obsess over the content of            the thoughts you find yourself lost in.


7) Close with kindness 

    When you’re ready, gently lift your gaze (if your eyes        are closed, open them). Take a moment and notice          any sounds in the environment. Notice how your body      feels right now. Notice your thoughts and emotions.        Notice how slow your heart rate is and how softly            you're breathing.